After being with my husband for 26 years (almost 23 of them married to him), I finally asked him what attracted him to me. I know. I know. But better late than never, right? His answer was the same one that attracted me to him. He liked talking with me. He liked the fact that I could talk on deeper subjects than fashion and television. Funny, I liked that he could talk about deeper subjects than sports and power tools. We still talk a lot.