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4- the Individualist

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you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka "The Romantic")


 

"I am unique"



 

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.



How to Get Along with Me



  • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
     
  • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
     
  • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
     
  • Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
     
  • Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!


What I Like About Being a FOUR


  • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
     
  • my ability to establish warm connections with people
     
  • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
     
  • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
     
  • being unique and being seen as unique by others
     
  • having aesthetic sensibilities
     
  • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

     


What's Hard About Being a FOUR


  • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
     
  • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

     
  • feeling guilty when I disappoint people
     
  • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
     
  • expecting too much from myself and life
     
  • fearing being abandoned

     
  • obsessing over resentments
     
  • longing for what I don't have
     


FOURs as Children Often



  • have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
     
  • are very sensitive
     
  • feel that they don't fit in
     
  • believe they are missing something that other people have

     
  • attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
     
  • become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized ornot understood

     
  • feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)
     


FOURsas Parents


  • help their children become who they really are
     
  • support their children's creativity and originality
     
  • are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings

     
  • are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
     
  • are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed 

 


 

 

 
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